38 Weeks Pregnant - The end is near!

I have not written a post now for ages as even though I have been on maternity leave I feel like I have not stopped. We have been decorating our hallway, stairs and landing and when I say decorating I mean re-plastering, stripping paintwork and starting from scratch. The end results are fantastic with the carpet having been laid a few days ago! There is still some paintwork in the hallway to be done which the other half is cracking on with while I blog.

I am relieved that it is nearly done but I do think is it necessary for there to be such an urgency when pregnant to nest and get everything perfect for when baby arrives?? Obviously we are not the only couple to be doing decorating in preparation for a new arrival, I know loads of couples all doing the same thing as if the arrival of the baby means that the rest of your life goes on hold. Its madness really!!

Here I am 38 weeks pregnant in one of the only pieces of  clothing I am comfortable in - my onesie! Yes I realise I look like I have stuffed a beachball up my top haha . .

I am carrying very low now and can feel a lot of pressure low down now which is getting really uncomfortable. I am already having sleepless nights as I am up to the toilet up to 6 times a night  and then get a lot of pelvic pain once I get back into bed so not much fun.

Any journey during the day has to be planned so I am not far from a toilet and walking very far is definitely a no no. Putting my shoes and socks on can be a bit of a mission and painting toenails impossible! I had my boy 2 weeks early so now I am over 38 weeks with this one I am in unknown territory, the days I can manage its the nights that are awful trying to get comfy and sleep.

I am feeling a bit anxious about the labour now too as even though its impossible to remember the  pain exactly, I know its a pain that is worse than anything else and me reaching the stage where I would do anything to take it away. That said I am also anxious to hold my baby so just want it over and done with. Its a mixture of fear and excitement. I remember the emotions you feel of holding your baby for the first time and nothing can beat it!

I am hoping that if all goes well I can have our baby in the local birth centre which will be a lot more relaxed and intimate than the general hospital. I have requested a water birth which I hope will help with the pelvic pain this time which was horrendous when I had K. The only downside is that I can only have Gas in the birth centre so if I do feel I want more pain relief it is not available.

My thoughts on this are that I would never request an epidural as the thought of a needle in my back to paralyse me would petrify me and I would want to be able to move around after the birth. I had diamorphine when in labour with K and did not like the feeling of not being in total control as I got confused on it as to what I was supposed to be doing when pushing. So actually a water birth and gas I hope will be enough.

The labour was quick with K - 5 hours so fingers crossed this one will be too though no labour is the same so will just have to wait and see. I have a feeling that this little madam is going to keep me waiting until my due date at least so watch this space for my 40 week post which will probably mostly consist of me moaning! Wish me luck . . . .

31 Weeks Pregnant - girls are more trouble than boys!

Well I am now in the 3rd trimester of my pregnancy and don't I know it! The bump is huge and is on the move regularly and I know the patterns of her being awake and asleep. I heard the rumours that you carry girls all up front and didn't really know what it mean't but now I most definitely know what this means.

With K I always felt his movements down my right side but they were set back in my stomach, I am not saying I couldn't see his movements because I could but they did not feel too hard on the front of my stomach and I carried a lot of water with him and felt that this acted like a bit of a barrier.

This time I can feel every movement she makes to the point where it now feels painful, I thinks its her shoulders, back and elbows I can feel just to the left of my belly button and I can visibly see her shifting herself around. It feels like she is going to pop out of my stomach and I still have just under 9 weeks to go which is a bit of a scary thought. Even when she is not moving I can put my hand on my stomach and feel a part of her there.

Now for the real whinge -

• Restless Legs - this is not the first time I have had this as I suffered this with K, every night when I sit down, about half hour later I have restless legs. Some people call it twitchy legs, its when you can not stop fidgeting with your legs as they will just not settle and constantly feel uncomfortable. The only way I can manage this is by sitting on the gym ball and having a little bounce while watching tv but if I get it in bed it keeps me awake for ages (and my partner unfortunately)
• Cramps - I am getting cramps in my legs and feet, not too often but very painful. My partner thought there was something seriously wrong when I shouted out loud due to a leg cramp the one night!
• Hormones - Yes I have days where I just want to ball my eyes out or just want to kill somebody (usually my partner)
• Struggling to do my trainers up - to bend for anything is a huge task but trying to do my trainers I have to bend to the side as she is always in the way and I am sure I will be asking for help before long. To bend over to pick something up is embarrassing as I just look ridiculous with my legs apart trying to stretch down!
• Getting comfortable to sleep is difficult, I need to position my V cushion under my bump now and turning over to sleep on my other side in the night wakes me up as I have to be careful and mindful of which side the baby is sleeping.
• Needing to go for a wee up to 5 times during the night and feeling so hot and uncomfortable is a nightmare. I am sure this is good practice for when she is here but I am so uncomfortable I would just love to have the occasional full nights sleep.
• Not being able to drink a bottle of wine! I miss a few glasses now and then and have been invited to more weddings,christenings and special occasions since being pregnant again than any other year.

Now for the good bits -

• Waking up in the morning to feel her first movements of the days which can still be an elbow sticking out but its comforting to know she is there when I wake up she is warm and safe in my tummy.
• Realising that the limb sticking out of my stomach feels like toes on her tiny feet - how cute.
• Being able to eat loads. I must admit I am not pigging out too much, its mostly in the evening and its usually just a bowl of cereal extra to what I would eat, though its nice to have the odd bar of choccy as a treat being as I can't have a drink.
• Decorating the nursery and buying all the things you need for baby. As I already have K I kept all of his things from when he was a baby which I have been able to re-use this time. eg, the cot, moses basket,cot mobile, baby moniters etc From experience I haven't spent much on a buggy as I know that you don't necessarily get the use out of them and they are all pretty similar. In fact I have gone for a second hand one which has not been used so looks brand new saving us a stack of money! It has a car seat, carry cot, foot muff, raincover and nappy bag so was amazing value.
• Reading about how your baby is developing week by week. I love checking up on how big our baby is getting and what she is up to inside my tummy. The sites I read from also offer you good tips on what you should be eating and how you might be feeling as the weeks go by.
• Knowing I am only a few weeks away from meeting our little princess. I keep recalling how I felt after having K and the emotions and love you immediately feel for your little bundle of joy. The first night I spent with K I couldn't sleep as I just kept looking at him, taking him all in and checking he was still there and breathing. I can;t wait to feel like that again plus I can't wait to see K meet his new little sister.

22 Weeks and Counting

Yes this is me at only 22 weeks pregnant! I am feeling huge and in this heat that we are having at the moment I am struggling. Baby girl seems happy though kicking away in my tummy and its such a lovely feeling. My partner can sometimes feel her now too, I can't wait to actually see her moving away in there as I used to with my boy, a foot sticking out here and there! I keep updated week by week on her progress usually by taking a look on Bounty or Babycentre or both!

The nursery is painted and just needs the carpet laying down and then I can start sorting out all my baby items from when I had my boy which are stored in the attic. We have most of the important things like the Moses basket, cot, feeding equipment, blankets, mobile etc but will need to buy a new buggy and changing unit. Also depending on what neutral clothes I have we have to go baby girl clothes shopping!

Next on my list is to pick up my maternity form otherwise know as a Mat B1 form around about now to hand in to my employer with the dates I need to start my maternity. As I have a physical job and a 3 year old at home, I am finding this pregnancy a lot more tiring than the last one so have decided to start my maternity a bit earlier at 32 weeks. I started maternity last time at 36 weeks and gave birth a few days later so want a bit of a rest and some time to get properly prepared, i.e nesting haha!

Another appointment in my diary is to go and have my anti D injection which I also had with my boy. This is due to me being a Rhesus negative blood type and I need to have the injection just in case the baby is a positive blood group. Basically if the baby is a positive and any of her blood gets into my system then my body will treat it as a foreign invader and will start making antibodies to destroy her blood. The anti D injection will destroy any blood from the baby before my body can make antibodies. This helps protect any future pregnancies as my body won't have built up the antibodies to fight them if they also turn out to be a positive blood group. For further information please take a look at nhs.co.uk.
You need to have this injection between 28 and 30 weeks of your pregnancy.

We are blessed.

We are so excited to announce that our scan went well and our baby appears happy and healthy.

Even though this is our second child so we have experienced this all before its still just as amazing the second time around.The detail you see on the anomaly scan from the little heart beating away to the tiny hands and feet. The raw emotion you feel for the little baby growing inside you and the enormous overwhelming urge to protect the your little one no matter what. Its all there when you see him/her moving around inside you on the screen and is like a tidal wave rushing over you.

After the initial screening we were asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby and were thrilled to hear that this baby looked like a little girl. In the room at the time the main concern was that the baby was healthy and so I didn't feel as emotional about the sex. In my mind I didn't care as long as the baby was healthy. 

We got outside into the car park and started ringing round to tell the family with me ringing my mom first. When I told her I was having a girl my mom screamed with excitement and kept saying over and over how thrilled she was. It was at that moment I realised it was actually what I longed to hear - we were having a little girl and our family was complete - I burst into tears of happiness and my partner put his arms around me.

Second Scan Excitement!

My partner and I are expecting our second child which is a 20 weeks old foetus as I write this post. Tomorrow we attend our second scan otherwise know as an anomaly scan which will reassure us that the baby is doing well - hopefully. There may also be the opportunity to discover the sex of the baby, we as a couple do want to know the sex of the baby if we can, though we actually have no preference. Everybody I meet tend to have different opinions on this and many of my friends are surprised that I would want to know and not save it as a surprise.

The reason we want to know is because we have bags of boys clothes in our attic which being the organised mother (I try) I want to sort out before the baby is born. We also have a nursery that we would like to finish which we don't want to be just neutral based. I also do not want to receive gifts that are all yellow lol! These may seem very material reasons but they are our reasons and we stand by them.

My main concern of course is that the baby is healthy, if we can not determine the sex then I will either have to have a surprise or pay for a 3rd scan. Whatever the outcome I will be back on my blog tomorrow to share, happy days - wish me luck x x